How to Get Kinky Without Breaking the Bank; utilizing ordinary tools from around the house for BDSM.

A member of Bears San Diego since 1998, Jeff has served on its Board of Directors for 8 years and acts as the Bears’ liaison to other parts of the community, and has helped out with a multitude of local events.  This became an integral part of his title year as Mr. So Cal Bear 2009. He has also been the coordinator of the Bears San Diego Pride contingent for several years, and is the current PR Chairman. Although he considers himself fairly new to the world of leather, he brings to the table the same level of energy, determination and focus he shows to everything else.

Description:

If you have a flogger, please make sure to bring it!

Flogging, it is one of the corner stones of BDSM play. It is used to warm someone up for play with other things, it can be a scene unto itself.

Hands on flogging is all about you. We will go through the basics on using a flogger, and safety issues and concerns, then you will have the opportunity to experience being flogged, and with throwing a flogger.

Experienced with a flogger? Come out and join in! Share your knowledge and experience!

Presenter Bio’s

Mike has been an active in the community since he arrived in San Diego in 2006. He lives his life in leather, whether he is wearing it or not, and embodies the concepts that are the foundation of Leather, trust, honor and respect. He owns two boy’s. He has worked diligently in the community both as a leader and volunteer for organizations such as the Beat and Greet, San Diego League of Gentlemen, Club-X, San Diego Leather Realm. He holds a firm belief that as a community, we need to work together, but at the same time, each group needs its own safe space for play, education and socializing.

Bryan Teague, American Leatherboy 2010, has been involved in the Leather Community since 1990. He and his Daddy moved to San Diego, CA in 2006.

He is the workshop coordinator for the San Diego League Of Gentlemen, webmaster for the San Diego Leather Pride and the Mr. San Diego Leather websites, host for the monthly Beat and Greets, and is a member of Club-X. Bryan has presented workshops on Fisting, Flogging, Piercing and Electricity, and is currently presenting on Daddy/boy relationships.

Joyce Beers Center
1230 Cleveland St
San Diego, Ca

Joyce Beers is located between Aladdin and (the new) Panera Bread in the Uptown Shopping center.

Annual planning meeting for the new year.

Joyce Beers is located between Aladdin and (the new) Panera Bread in the Uptown Shopping center. Yes believe it or not it’s that time of year again when the kinky San Diego clubs team up and bring you the 6th annual inner-club holiday party. (YOU DO NOT NEED TO BE A MEMBER OF A CLUB OR GROUP TO ATTEND) Mark your calendars! Dec 2rd at 7:00 PM is the Inter-club Holiday Party at the Joyce Beers Community Center in Hillcrest. We have an amazing line up of delightful delectable treats for you! Delectable holiday treats including: Sweet baked munchies, and cookies of all sorts and some “healthier fare” as well.

Thanks to the following clubs for helping out: Club-X Dungeon Servitus Fetishmen San Diego Submissive Voice Leather Realm Bears San Diego SoCal Pex San Diego Leather Pride SDLOG Imperial Court ICSD There is still time for your club or organization to participate!

Of course everyone is encouraged to bring a little something to share. Remember, everyone is welcome to join in this relaxed evening of socializing; celebrating the season together with friends and family. Santa Claus will be in attendance again and available for you to take personal pictures with your cameras!

Hope to see everyone there!

If you can lend a hand, your club wants to be part or if you have any questions, please contact us.

See everyone on Dec 2!

Please note: This is a men’s only meeting.

You meet a great guy, fall in love, and decide to build a life together — and you have kinky urges and desires that he is unable or unwilling to explore with you. How do you make the relationship work? How do you continue to grow together without growing apart? Join a panel of kinky leathermen with a combined century’s worth of direct experience on the topic for a discussion of the rewards and pitfalls of loving someone who can’t or won’t share your kinks. Panel Bios: Papa Tony Lindsey has been in a vanilla marriage with his husband Dennis for the past 21 years. He has been member and leader of San Diego’s leather, fetish, and kink communities for over 30 years, creating a number of leather- and kink-related affinity groups, including most recently FetishMenSanDiego. Ray Conser has been with his partner Richard for 31 years. After 20 years together, he started exploring the world of leather and fetish in order to inform and influence his artwork. He took the Pain Guild class in 2002 and was introduced to and experienced many leather-related fetishes. About the same time he started working with Mark Holmes making custom leathers. He has been in a leather relationship with Papa Tony since 2003. Bob Eisenbart has been with his partner for 34 years. Although interested in leather and kink since his teens, he only stepped outside his vanilla relationship to start exploring those interests in 2010. Anthony Ovaldson has been in a vanilla relationship with his partner Don Harmon for the past 10 years. He is currently Mr. San Diego Leather 2011 First runner up. He has always been into kink, but in just the past 5 years has been exploring his kink side more. Don Harmon is the vanilla half of the kinky / vanilla relationship with Anthony Ovaldson. He will bring the very important perspective of dealing with a kinky / vanilla relationship.

Please note:  This is a men’s only meeting.

Blood and Blades, Sharp and Pointy, Do these turn you on?  Scare the hell out of you?  Maybe both…

Erotic Cutting

As a SM scene, erotic cutting is enjoyed by pain bottoms who want an endorphin high.  For some bottoms it is terrifying and scary, for others it is a path of wonderful pleasures.  Because cutting transgresses our normal boundary of skin-to-air some experience this scene as a head trip as much as a physical trip. Tops get their own mysterious sadistic kicks out of it. The connection between the two players can be truly elemental.  This introductory workshop will focus on safety, technique, headspace, and having fun.

Presenter Bio:

Adam, a native Southern Californian, first discovered the joys of being a kinky bastard by accident at the tender age of six – when his older sister got pissed off at him and chained him to a door.  His formative high school years at New Mexico Military Institute only furthered his interests in kink, BDSM, and uniforms, not to mention helped solidify his developing reputation as a sadistic SOB.  It took years since that first incident with the chains before he discovered that there was an entire world full of wonderful pervs to play with, and he plunged into the Leather community with both boots on and never looked back.  

Adam now serves the Leather community as President of San Diego Leather Pride Inc.  In May, 2011 he had the great honor to be a judge for IML 33.   Adam was also Mr. San Diego Leather 2004, representing his community for a full and successful year, culminating in becoming one of the finalists at IML 27 in 2005.  His ongoing efforts in the community have been recognized by the San Diego City Council who named a day in his honor, along with being acknowledged by the San Diego Leather Awards as Man of the Year in 2005 & 2007, and Kinkster of the Year 2007.  He produces, judges and emcees at many events, and enjoys presenting leather and kink education throughout the country, including co-facilitating Pain Guild.  

Adam is proud to be an Associate Member of the Chicago Hellfire Club, well-known for his love of all things sharp and pointy.  He works actively with the Rodeo, Bear, and Imperial Court communities, and has been honored with a number of titles.  His favorite ones are “Mama’s Toro,” in Mama Sandy Reinhardt’s Leather Family, and “Saint A-damN’ Evil of the Miracle Whip,” bestowed on him by the San Diego Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence.  Adam and his husband Timothy are legally married in the State of California, having the incredible opportunity of being one of the 18,000 same-sex couples who are still legally wed in spite of the best attempts of the advocates of Prop 8.   Adam & Tim remain forever grateful to his big sister and her chains

Handouts:

Scarification – wiki

Types of Scalpel Blades

Dungeon Master 33-Safety Valve

Gripping a medical scalpel

principal-veins-arteries

5th Annual Kinky Swap Meet Co-hosted by Club X

It’s that time of the year again, for the 5th Annual Swap Meet on Aug 5th at the Joyce Beers Center. Brought to you by Club-X and SDLOG. Come out grab a FREE table and and lets gets rid of those treasures you no longer use. Browse for that item you have been looking for but not wanting to get at full price. You never know what you will find. Vendors are welcome!